Evoquer ce que peut apporter la pr\u00e9sence de l\u2019infirmier apr\u00e8s le d\u00e9c\u00e8s ne doit pas nous faire oublier l\u2019humilit\u00e9 inh\u00e9rente \u00e0 cette d\u00e9marche. Cet aspect a \u00e9t\u00e9 soulign\u00e9 \u00e0 tr\u00e8s juste titre par plusieurs infirmiers. En effet, cette aide est avant tout une proposition, une invitation. Elle ne peut en aucun cas s\u2019imposer\u00a0:<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Malheureusement, la vuln\u00e9rabilit\u00e9 de la fin de vie alimente la sensation de pouvoir que certains soignants pensent avoir, et qu\u2019ils justifient par un discours instrument\u00e9 de soins de qualit\u00e9, ramenant les patients et leurs familles \u00e0 des objets de soins. Ainsi les soignants doivent savoir garder leur place, toute leur place, mais rien que leur place.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Elle est avant tout d\u00e9finie par le besoin des proches, et saura se conformer, s\u2019adapter, se plier \u00e0 la tonalit\u00e9 et la couleur de l\u2019instant.<\/p>\n
L\u2019intervention de l\u2019infirmier n\u2019a pas vocation \u00e0 fa\u00e7onner, formater l\u2019instant, selon l\u2019image id\u00e9ale qu\u2019il peut en avoir, au regard de ses connaissances, de ses exp\u00e9riences.<\/p>\n
Ainsi, sa vision des choses reste personnelle, et ne demeure \u00eatre que sa v\u00e9rit\u00e9. Chaque membre de la famille doit \u00eatre pr\u00e9sent \u00e0 cet instant, en accord avec ses ressentis, ses capacit\u00e9s, ce qu\u2019il se sent capable d\u2019accueillir, de voir, d\u2019entendre.<\/p>\n
Libre de rester, ou de fuir. De voir, ou de fermer les yeux. Aucune contrainte ne saurait \u00eatre acceptable et juste vis \u00e0 vis d\u2019un proche confront\u00e9 \u00e0 la mort d\u2019un \u00eatre cher.<\/p>\n
116 Richard M-S, Soigner la relation en fin de vie, op.cit., p.115.
\n117 Richard Christian, Accompagnement de l\u2019entourage, valeurs et limites, Objectif Soins, Janvier 2004, n\u00b0 122, p.20.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
A chacun d\u2019accepter et de respecter ses limites. L\u2019infirmier peut sans doute veiller \u00e0 maintenir cette autonomie si pr\u00e9cieuse\u00a0:<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0\u00catre autonome, c\u2019est \u00eatre libre de d\u00e9cider \u00e0 chaque instant ce qui est bon pour soi, le cadre et les r\u00e8gles auxquelles ont se soumet\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Intuitivement, chacun sait mieux que personne ce qu\u2019il peut ou non vivre de cet instant.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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